License Administrator Very Slow (Windows 10)

I am trying to commute a license to my Windows 10 computer over a Shrew VPN. The License tool is very slow to start and very sluggish to use when it does start. At times it will show the licenses from the license server (Windows 2003 X64) but when I try to commute it will say that it lost communications with the license sever even though it is still running.

After my latest fail I tried again and it shows me a message box with "Commute failed: Error[81]: Client commuter license already exists on "no-net".

The license in the commute list says commuted here "N"

I spend more time trying to get licensing to work than actually using the product most days. Other than licensing issues I have little to no problems with dev partner studio.